theBOUM
the ideal introduction
delicious/mischievous is a sapphic community built on consent and care: attuned, tender & playful events for women who love women. A space for authentic connection through listening, care & body awareness. A bubble of magic, joy and belonging dedicated to all the malicieuses, with or without experience, single or in a relationship, of all ages and orientations.
A dance night, delicious/mischievous style. A festive, caring evening format where women who love women come together to dance, play, meet and share the moment, without masks, pressure or judgement. An attuned dance floor, held with care: four hours to explore a different way to party, let your body express itself, embrace the lightness of play and the joy of movement, on your own, with someone or already in a relationship.
THE INTENTION
A dance floor for women, filled with delicious/mischievous magic, where partying becomes a playground for exploring relationships: dancing differently, connecting without pressure, letting playfulness, friendship, chemistry — or simply joy — emerge. You don't need to "know how to dance". You don't need to come with someone. You don't need to flirt (although it might happen!).
WHO THIS FORMAT IS FOR
the BOUM welcomes experienced participants and beginners alike. It's the ideal introduction.
WHAT YOU'LL EXPERIENCE
Arrival — 19:00
Opening circle — 19:15 (afterwards, the doors close to preserve the framework established together)
Guided games with music — 19:45
Open dance floor — 20:45
An ongoing space for relaxation & gentleness (a no-stress zone: breathe, cuddle, chat, observe, drink a kombucha)
Closing circle — 22:40
Departures — 23:00
WHERE & when
A beautiful, large, bright space with high ceilings (usually a dance hall, yoga studio, art gallery or large private flat), specially decorated and arranged for the occasion.
The space opens its doors at 19:00.
The opening circle begins at 19:15: from that moment, the doors are closed and it is no longer possible to join the event, in order to preserve the framework set together.
the delicious/mischievous framework: A FACILITATED SPACE
At delicious/mischievous, encounters rely neither on improvisation nor on social pressure. The experience takes place in what we call "a facilitated space": a relational framework guided with care, designed so that you can take part in complete confidence.
gentle grounding
Every event begins with an opening circle. It's a time to settle in, share your inner weather and set out your boundaries for the day.
caring guidance
Our facilitator holds the space. She marks its thresholds and opens and closes each part. She offers gradual invitations to connect (through play, listening and movement) and ensures the integrity of the experience.
consent as our compass
Every activity is clearly explained and requires explicit consent. Here, everything is an invitation: you choose what to experience, how, with whom and with what intensity.
your absolute sovereignty
Nothing is ever compulsory. At any time, you're free to participate, simply observe or step away to honour your own pace. Those coming as a couple can also choose to experience it just as a pair, in their own bubble.
This framework creates a space of confidentiality and collective responsibility. It allows you to release the pressure, listen to yourself fully and explore relating with gentleness and authenticity, without any expectation or judgement.
the FACILITATOR
[TO BE COMPLETED — often a guest facilitator]
the PRICE of the experience
dates and prices announced city by city
who are the MALICIEUSES?
This sapphic space is open to all women attracted to other women — whether you're lesbian, bi, pan or simply curious. Age is never a selection criterion, and participants are generally between 25 and 55. The events are suited to single people as well as to those coming as a couple.
We come together around bodily, relational and creative practices, rooted in relational awareness, and around shared values: authenticity, emotion, care, community, tenderness. Together, we cultivate a sense of celebration and beauty, and co-create spaces that explore other ways of relating, of inhabiting the body and of thinking about the world.
The harmony of our collective rests on respect, individual responsibility and the care given to our bonds. Every participant is invited to contribute to a space where everyone's boundaries, consent, diversity of experience and emotional safety are fully respected.
We reserve the right of access and participation for all our events. Any inappropriate behaviour may lead to immediate or permanent exclusion from our formats, with no possibility of a refund. This decision rests solely with the organising team and aims to preserve the integrity, safety and relational quality of our spaces.
Every trans woman, every person in transition, is welcome at delicious/mischievous. If you have a question, read our access framework, or write to us: we'll answer you personally.
what should I BRING?
Comfortable, loose clothes in which you feel good and pretty! Colours and floral patterns naturally find their place in the delicious/mischievous world — perhaps it's the moment to bring out your most beautiful kimono, if you feel like it.
Treats (fruit, pastries…) and/or a non-alcoholic drink (kombucha, kefir, lemonade, iced tea…) to share.
a few general RULES
punctuality — Participants arriving after the opening circle and the setting of the framework cannot be admitted.
sobriety — The event is free from alcohol and drugs. Please do not take substances that could alter your awareness, either at the venue or before the event.
confidentiality — What is shared, experienced or observed during the event remains confidential and must not be shared outside it without the explicit consent of those concerned.
phones & images — Phone use is limited during the event. No photographs or videos may be taken without the explicit agreement of everyone concerned.
respect for the space — Participants are asked to take care of the space and leave it clean at the end of the event.
respect for the framework — The framework established at the beginning of the event is there to ensure everyone's safety and comfort. Please respect the facilitator's guidance throughout the experience. Activities are always invitations: you can do less, slow down or stop at any time, but you cannot go beyond what is offered, in order to preserve the shared framework.
respect for the team — The team members are there to look after the framework and the people within it. Their presence and guidance contribute to the quality of everyone's experience and must be respected throughout the event.